i just did what you want to know and i asked the same questions heres what i got. 2003 trd x cab v6 with 3" cornfed spacer kit w/ procomp aal 2.5" in the back cost me 360 shipping and all for that kit to my door in about a week and half. had the lift installed for 200 not to mechanically inclined so i had to dish it out. the tires i got are 32x11.50r15 bfg at's costing me 700 and change from sears they price matched costco i wanted to use my sears card to pay for it. just that brings you to alittle over 1000 already but you good to go if you do the lift your self. if i had the tools i would do it myself now that i have seen it done. so you can get that setup for under 1000. also i had to pick up a pair of used non-trd coils for 50 which is a good investment the ride is awesome. no complaints. little viberation but i haven't done the alignment yet doing that when the tires are put on by sears and maybe the washer on the carrier bearing if need it.
oh a little minor side effect
the wife or gf will hate you and the site for all this info that will take time away from her and spending money were she thinks it isn't nessecary.
guys on gals on here are great at answering question and also the search tools is great also,i just about mastered that...i think.