zosimov21 said:
... Anyone have a wiring guide as far as what prong takes what, for example when looking at it from the front which of the 4 prongs take what.
It would help to know what kind of relay you are using - can you post a pic of it?
zosimov21 said:
... I ended up just wiring the switch directly bypassing the relay ...would it be bad for the switch to pull all the amp's from the lights without the relay?
That depends on the switch, and how many amps you are running through it, but generally speaking, it's not a good idea.
Here is a schematic for the wiring on my ARB locker, in which I show the connections for a common Bosch 40amp relay. It will work the same for your lights...
http://www.bajataco.com/arblocker/LOCKER-SCHEMATIC1.gif
Basically, the power wire (12v coming from your battery) hooks up to terminal #30, and the wire going from the relay to your lights would hook up to terminal #87. The wire that goes between your switch, and the relay, would connect to terminal #86, and terminal #85 goes to ground. The center terminal (#87a) is not used in this case.
This is what the
Bosch relay looks like.