What fool told you something like that?
If you are off road racing and spending most of your time at full throttle and high RPMs then you might end up with an elivated oil temp. However, if you off road like most of us at slow speed and in 4 high, you will never get your oil very hot at all. The idea that you need a thicker oil for this is just dumb.
The hottest your oil will get is constant high speed cruising on the highway, like a steady 80+ MPH. Anything less then that, your oil will always be the same temp since it is stabilized by the oil warmer/cooler. It stays pretty much the same temp all the time.
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